Empty Promises by Pete Wilson [Book Review]

[Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book for free through BookSneeze in exchange for this review.]

Pete Wilson has done a great job of shedding light on the lies that we don’t realize we are believing. These lies are the empty promises that this world offers us that can never fulfill our every desire the way God can. He touches on the promises of approval, power, money, religion, beauty, and dream chasing. All of these things can be good things, but when we put our security in these things instead of God, they can be very unhealthy and lead to bad consequences. If anything, this book will make us aware of these lies and help us to see where they are trying to get a foothold in our lives.

This book challenged me to really take a look inside, and helped me to identify things that are competing with God for my heart. As Pete explained how each empty promise would try to deceive us, he also asked great questions to help me overcome the deception and see the truth in my actions and motives. I think that the hardest part is breaking through the deception. If you read this book and start thinking to yourself that these are not issues for you, that would tip me off that you may have a problem. My hope is that when you read this, that you would carefully consider the possibility that you are being fooled by these lies, even if only a little bit, and be on guard for when they try to invade your heart.

Thankfully this book does not stop with just identifying the deception in our lives. Pete also offers some practical strategies to help fight the ongoing battle for the territory of our hearts. He walks us through his practices of solitude, fasting, scripture, and prayer to show us how he keeps the truth in his heart and the deception out. He says that we need to replace those Idols with God and through daily practices we can have “a living encounter with the living God to keep us living close to the truth.”

 

Strategic Living

The other day my wife and I were discussing our finances and we realized that the times that we mess up on our budget is when we don’t have a strategy in place. It got me thinking about other areas of my life. Do I have a strategy for parenting, my career, or even my relationship with God. These things are important to me, so why wouldn’t I have a plan in place to do them well? If I am not looking ahead and trying to prepare for what may come, then I am just leaving those things to life’s circumstances.

A discerning man keeps wisdom in view, but a fool’s eyes wander to the ends of the earth.
–Proverbs 17:24

Without a strategy, we are just wandering around.

Are you living strategically, or are you letting the current of life take you wherever it pleases?

 

Cincinnati Chili

If you happen to watch Diners, Drive Ins, and Dives on the Food Network, you may have seen this one before. But recently they visited Cincinnati and got a taste of Cincinnati Style Chili. Here is the clip from the show.

The Wisdom of Ron Swanson

Disclaimer: This post contains some PG-13 language in it. I think it is funny and makes a good point.

Never half ass two things. Whole ass one thing.

-Ron Swanson

Ron Swanson is a character on the NBC show ‘Parks and Recreation.’ I took this quote from this past week’s episode when Ron is trying to convince Leslie to take some time off from the Parks Department to work on her City Council campaign.

I admit that I half ass a lot of things. I don’t do it because I want to, but it seems that is the only way I will get everything done. But I really want to just do one great thing. I wish I could just focus on one thing  and go “whole ass” on it. It seems I can do this in spurts on little things, but I am still dreaming big.

What are you half assing that needs to be whole ass?

Life Disrupted

I wanted to write a little something to give an update on my life here.

I am back at work. With only a few weeks remaining of unemployment benefits, I began applying for jobs I wouldn’t have applied for a year ago. Income was needed and time was running out. One of the first jobs I applied for requested an interview and after a few of those, I was offered a position as a technical support agent. It is a help desk job where I answer phone calls and help people resolve issues with this company’s software applications. There is much to learn and I will be in training for several weeks. It is a temp to hire position, so hopefully they will like me and keep me on.

It has been a whirlwind the last few days. After being without a traditional job for almost 2 years, I am back to 40 hours a week. It has been a major adjustment. It has also been bittersweet with Faith and the kids. In general, we are sad that I will not be around as much, but it is necessary for me to bring some income. It is going to take some time for me to get used to this kind of schedule again, but I am confident that that is where I am supposed to be right now even if it isn’t exactly what I want to do with the rest of my life.

I see it as an opportunity to network with some new people and develop more friendships. You never know what might come of that. And for now, I must play the support role so that Faith can finish school and fulfill her dream of becoming a nurse.

That is all for now. Thank you to those of you who have been praying for us. God knows what He is doing and I trust Him with his plan over mine any day.

Book Review – Heaven Is For Real – Todd Burpo

Heaven Is For Real is a book about a little boy who visits heaven during a life saving surgery and recounts great details about what he witnessed. I was not sure what to think about this book before I started reading it. I am naturally a skeptic. But I find the detail that the boy gives about heaven and the things that he shared about family members he had never met to be very intriguing. I connected with Todd Burpo as he retells the story of how his son became very sick and his little life seemed hopeless. As a father, I cried with him when I read this part. I can’t imagine what it would be like to go through something like that. I appreciate how open Todd was about his feelings towards God at the time.

Because of that, I made a connection and I firmly believe and am amazed at what Colton Burpo experienced during his surgery. When Colton talks about heaven, it makes me want to go there.  I believe I have a lot left to do in this world, but I hope that when I am ready to leave this place, that I will be looking forward to the place God has prepared.

The book was a quick read for me. I was sucked into the story and wanted to know more with each turn of the page. It was inspiring and encouraging because it showed me what I believe Jesus describes as ‘faith like a child.’ It reminded me what it was like to have that kind of faith and in a way I have it back again.

Disclaimer: I received this book for free in exchange for this book review. This review is my honest opinion of the book and is in no way influenced by the fact that I received it for free.

Heaven Is For Real can be purchased through Amazon at the following link.

Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy’s Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back, Deluxe Edition

Goals for 2012

Photo by bayasaa on Flickr

I believe that 2012 is going to be a great year. I like the idea of a fresh start each year and I try to set goals or resolutions to get things off to a good start. Here are my goals for 2012.

1. I want to lose 100 lbs. in 2012. Goal Weight is 200 lbs.

2. Publish a blog post 6 days a week minimum.

3. At the end of each day, the house should be caught up.

4. Read scripture and pray daily.

5. Do the budgets, work the snowball, and stick with it. No compromise.

6. Make time to hang with people on a regular basis in person.

7. Make time in evenings and on weekends where I avoid social media and spend time with my family.

8. Give more $ to church.

 

Ephriam Is Elvis in his Christmas Show

Ephriam’s class does a very unique Christmas show every year where the kids all get to play a unique role. This year, Ephriam was the King himself, Elvis Presley. Here is a picture of him after the show, but you should watch the video below to check out his dance moves.

Not In The Christmas Spirit? Here Ya Go!

Teaching My Kids About Jesus During Christmas

It is the Christmas season again and also my favorite holiday of the year. I celebrate it as long as I possibly can. Most people think that I start too early, but I find it hard to cram all of that celebrating  into one month of the year. So I spread it out a little.

Today I want to share with you one of the many ways we celebrate Christmas at my house. Since I can remember, I would count the days until Christmas by tearing rings off of a paper chain that I would make each year until there are none left. When the rings are gone, I would know it was Christmas. I have continued the same tradition with my kids.

But this year, I put a little twist on it. I want my kids to understand why we really celebrate Christmas. The presents and parties are a lot of fun, but the truth is that Christmas is about the best gift ever given. We remember the day that God sent Jesus to be with us in flesh and blood.

This year when we made the paper chain, I wrote one of the names of Jesus and a corresponding scripture on each link. Our chain is typically 24 links long and there are many more names for Jesus, so I had to narrow it down a little. I picked names and scriptures that I felt like I could read to my kids and they could learn something from it. So each night we tear off a link and we read the scripture together and attempt to discuss why or how Jesus got that name. This way we are all reminded that we are counting down the days to Jesus, not just presents and parties.

The names and verses I selected are listed below. I specifically put Immanuel last because of its meaning (God with us). That will be the last link we take off and it will signify that day that God came to be with us.

Lamb of God – John 1:29

The Resurrection & The Life – John 11:25

Lord of Lords and King of Kings – 1 Timothy 6:15

Teacher- Matthew 8:19

High Priest –  Hebrews 6:20

The Gate – John 10:9

Living Water – John 4:10

Bread of Life – John 6:35

Alpha & Omega – Revelation 22:13

True Vine – John 15:1

Holy One – Mark1:24

Mediator – 1Timothy 2:5

Good Shepherd – John 10:11

Light of the World –  John 8:12

The Word – John 1:1

Chief Cornerstone – Ephesians 2:20

Savior – John 4:42

Servant – Matthew 12:18

Author & Finisher of our Faith – Hebrews 12:2

Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace Isaiah, Wonderful counselor – Isaiah 9:6

Only begotten son – John 3:16

Redeemer – Job 19:25

The way, the truth & the life – John 14:6

Immanuel – Matthew 1:23

 

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